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Analogous words: accord, award, vouchsafe, *grant2 Confer, commune, consult, advise, parley, treat, negotiate are synonyms when they are used intransitively and bear the meaning to carry on a conversation or discussion especially in order to reach a decision or settlement.Confer implies comparison of views or opinions and, as a rule, equality in those participating in the discussion{
the executives confer weekly about important business affairs
}{the Dauphin and his train approacheth, to confer about some matter— Shak.
}Commune, once a close synonym of confer, now is rare in this sense{we were communing on important matters— Walpole
}In current use it usually implies spiritual intercourse (as in prayer or meditation or in a close union of minds and spirits){there, sitting on the ground, the two [mother and child] would commune with each other by the hour— Hudson
}Consult adds to confer the implication of seeking or taking counsel{the president will not make his reply to the ambassador until he has consulted with the cabinet
}{the three powers would consult on how to ameliorate the internal political conflict— Vucinich
}Advise often is not clearly distinguishable from consult except that it is more suitable for use regarding personal matters on which one seeks advice{before he makes his decision, he will advise with his friends
}Parley, treat, and negotiate all imply conference for the sake of settling differences or of coming to an agreement on terms.Parley stresses the talk involving the discussion of terms{they are at hand, to parley or to fight— Shak.
}{the . . . government was forced to parley with the rebels— Harrington
}Treat adds to parley the implication either of a common will to adjust differences or of the need of diplomacy{the warring nations were ready to treat for peace
}{the commander in chief . . . was to treat for an armistice— Pares
}Negotiate implies compromise or bargaining{after the preliminaries were over, they proceeded to negotiate
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New Dictionary of Synonyms. 2014.